Misogyny takes many forms.
Common wisdom says that everyone loves a pretty girl. But, in fact, males who feel intense
frustration that a lovely girl doesn’t
return his feelings of affection may take a gun to school and shoot her. The tragic events at high schools in Indiana and Texas prove this point.
Beautiful women have always sensed that their appearance may
arouse intense feelings of envy and
jealousy. A pretty girl may be the kindest, most gentle soul imaginable, but her
looks may evoke hostility from
other girls, who will label her shallow, vain, and any other adjectives they
can summon up to diminish the fact that she’s just way too good looking. Although not every man will decide to shoot
her, some men will hate her because they
realize they don’t stand a chance to win her affections. They will probably
call her dumb, crazy, bitchy, or
whatever hateful term comes to mind.
Very young women often don’t realize this. Perhaps that’s why Muslims think it best if
women cover their hair and faces. At
least they won’t get shot by some
jealous maniac.
I know of a wealthy mother who was so determined to have a beautiful daughter that she submitted her
to a nose job, chin lift, and other surgeries. Her hair is done in an expensive salon, far
out of reach for average teenagers, and her make up is a Sephora triumph. Designer clothes on a perfect figure complete
the picture. Why then, does this girl
look so sullen and miserable when you see her in public with her parents? Pulchritude is a gift, but it can also be a
curse.
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